PART 2: The Paradoxes of Human and Divine Experience
Part 2 of Exploring the Dance Between Dualities such as Control vs Surrender: Insights from the 2nd channeling session.
PART 2 of messages channeled during the 2nd session.
I use the words "they" to address these energies (it feels like multiple entities but still one at the same time), but "they" are us, "they" are our higher selves, "they" are just a different version of me (& you) that is able to view life from the perspective of "Unity consciousness".
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PART 2:
Healing vs Embodying
Question:
My next question is about healing. From a certain "higher" perspective, I can say that a client needs to heal XYZ to achieve a certain goal, to change their perspective to a higher one and experience a higher reality. But at the same time, all of us are the same energy, we CAN skip the healing part and manifest our goals directly.
In my mind, the reason we need healing is because our physical body might not be able to exist in that "higher" state, or our human mind may not yet comprehend those higher states, or that from our current perspective we just are unable to see what lies on the other side, or that there's no "other" side at all.
I'm torn between saying that people need healing and that they don't need it, because they're super powerful Gods. So, they can just decide today that their life is going to be a certain way and it will be. They just need to have that much conviction and belief. How do I approach this?
Answer:
You’re touching on a fundamental paradox in healing and manifestation, where both perspectives—healing as necessary and healing as skippable—hold truth, depending on one’s level of awareness and embodiment.
Here’s a way to approach this duality without dismissing either side:
Acknowledge the Purpose of Healing as Integration
Healing isn’t just about "fixing" something that’s broken; it’s about integrating fragmented parts of ourselves so we can access and sustain higher states of consciousness within our human experience. Healing allows us to release blocks that limit perception, bringing the body, mind, and spirit into a more cohesive alignment.
This process helps us embody higher awareness in a way that is tangible, so our physical and emotional systems don’t get overwhelmed when experiencing heightened states.
Recognize the Human Experience as a Vehicle for Growth
The belief in needing healing often arises from the human mind’s identification with pain, fear, or limitation. From a higher perspective, these challenges are part of the chosen experience—like a structure for growth—where we learn how to navigate, release, and transform.
This perspective honors that, while on one level we are pure and whole, in our human form, we engage in a growth journey. Healing, then, is about refining this vehicle (body, mind, and emotions) to hold a higher vibration while allowing us to exist harmoniously in this dense reality.
Embrace the Power of Conscious Choice
For those who can recognize themselves as creators with absolute conviction, the belief in their own power can indeed shortcut some aspects of healing. If one can truly perceive reality from a place of unity and oneness, they can bypass certain healing stages by directly embodying the desired reality.
However, most people find that holding this unwavering conviction is challenging due to the lingering influence of subconscious beliefs or trauma that can block them from sustaining this level of faith consistently. Here, healing work supports the integration needed to stabilize their conviction.
Tailor the Approach to the Client’s Readiness
Recognizing that everyone is at a different point in their journey, your role could be to intuitively sense the best approach for each client. For some, emphasizing their innate power might resonate, empowering them to adopt an immediate shift in perspective.
For others, guiding them through healing steps might be necessary so they can gradually release limiting beliefs, thus naturally aligning them with the empowered state they’re moving toward.
Both paths are valid; the choice depends on what the client can fully embody.
Teach the Concept of Parallel Paths
You can introduce the idea that healing and manifestation are not necessarily linear or mutually exclusive. Healing work can happen while one simultaneously steps into the reality they wish to experience.
This layered approach allows clients to start embodying higher realities through belief and intention while also addressing limiting patterns that may surface along the way.
Present Healing as a Practice of Mastery, Not a Requirement
Reframe healing not as something that “must” be done but as an opportunity to masterfully shape one’s energy and consciousness.
This empowers clients to see healing as a refining process rather than a prerequisite, allowing them to choose healing as an act of self-mastery rather than obligation.
In this way, you honor both perspectives: the one that acknowledges people’s inherent power to create their reality instantly, and the one that sees healing as a valuable tool for sustainable transformation. By holding space for both truths, you can guide clients with the understanding that healing and direct manifestation are complementary paths, each enhancing the other as they continue their journey.
Pain and Suffering
Question:
About wars and suffering. I find it difficult to accept and also explain to people about how it is ultimately a choice, a choice made by those intelligent souls who are participating in it, whether they are victims or perpetuators. But they don't have much choice to create their desired reality as a human.
Ultimately no one ever gets hurt, because consciousness never gets hurt.
However, it sounds like spiritual bypassing and is bound to trigger so many people into anger and dismissal (including myself).
The channeled information said that we must trust those souls decisions to choose these experiences and not look at them in pity. Instead, we should hold them in love and power, and extend help whenever and however we can because we all need it on earth.
The perspective that bad things are happening, is valid, but only on earth, not from the unity perspective. How do I share this with the world without bypassing?
Answer:
Explaining the deeper, non-dual perspective on suffering, wars, and hardship is indeed delicate, especially when people are directly affected. Balancing empathy with a more spiritual understanding requires sensitivity, and it’s good that you’re aware of the potential for both resonance and resistance in your message.
Here’s a way to present these ideas that respects the depth of the topic without dismissing real suffering:
Acknowledging the Reality of Earthly Pain and Suffering
Suffering is real and painful from a human perspective. Wars, oppression, and violence create real consequences that affect people’s lives. Honoring these experiences validates the reality of people’s pain and demonstrates compassion. This acknowledgment helps others feel seen and understood, creating a sense of trust before sharing any higher perspectives.
Introduce the Concept of Multiple Perspectives Gradually
When explaining the idea that, from a higher perspective, suffering serves a purpose, you might introduce it as just one way to understand the complexities of life. For example, you could say, “There are many ways to understand the nature of suffering. While on Earth it feels deeply painful and real, some people find comfort in the idea that, from a broader perspective, our souls choose certain challenges as part of their growth.” This language leaves room for people to explore the concept without feeling pressured to adopt it immediately.
Emphasize the Power of Compassion and Help
Recognizing suffering as part of a soul’s journey does not diminish our responsibility to show compassion and to help those in need. If anything, this perspective can deepen our compassion, because we can act from a place of both respect for each soul’s journey and active kindness.
“Honoring someone’s path” can mean giving them love, support, and advocacy, rather than pity. This way, you encourage others to uplift people rather than simply feeling sorry for them.
Use Empathy as the Bridge to Higher Perspectives
The broader perspective offers a source of hope and resilience, especially for those in pain or grieving. For example, you might say, “While it doesn’t take away the pain, some people find comfort in knowing that our souls are resilient and capable of growth, even in hardship.”
This gentle approach allows you to introduce a more expansive view without suggesting that it diminishes anyone’s experience of pain.
Acknowledge the Triggering Nature of the Idea
Be open about the fact that the idea of soul choice in suffering can be triggering and difficult to accept, even for those who believe it.
You understand the gravity of people’s experiences and aren’t trying to “solve” them with abstract concepts.
It’s helpful to say, “This perspective can be challenging to accept, especially when we or others are in the midst of suffering. And it’s perfectly valid to feel conflicted about it.”
Empower Others to Respond Rather than to Judge
While suffering may serve a larger purpose, our role as conscious beings is to respond with love and action. Rather than seeing people as “victims” or “perpetrators,” we can recognize that, at a soul level, every person is capable of growth.
But this doesn’t imply that suffering is “necessary” or that harm should ever be justified. By holding space for others’ pain and our shared humanity, we are able to honor both the Earthly and the spiritual perspectives.
Encourage Inner Exploration Rather Than Preaching
Rather than offering this perspective as a statement, you might frame it as an invitation for others to explore within themselves. Say something like, “Many people have found that exploring these perspectives has been healing for them, but it’s a personal journey. What’s most important is finding what resonates with you personally.”
Frame Suffering as Part of a Collective Growth Path
You can suggest that Earth itself is a place of collective evolution. From this angle, suffering isn’t just individual; it’s part of our collective journey of learning compassion, resilience, and unity.
A perspective like, “Each person’s experience contributes to a broader awakening, helping humanity grow in wisdom and empathy,” acknowledges the challenges of suffering while seeing it as part of a larger movement toward love and unity.
Destiny vs Will
Question:
Regarding this sentence: ”However, manifestation doesn’t always happen through sheer will or force of desire alone—it is about being in flow with the universe and aligning your actions with your deepest truths.”
How about this argument: Because I know everything one, the million dollar house and I are same consciousness. I should be able to just call it into existence with firm belief and power. And let's say I want it because I want to have that experience, because I am God and I can WILL it. What would you say about this? How can humans stop being controlled by something external, like, let's say the flow of life?
Answer:
What you're describing is an embodiment of the paradox of being a creator and also existing within the flow of life. On one hand, you’re absolutely correct that everything is one consciousness, and as part of that universal consciousness, you have the power to call into existence whatever you desire—whether that’s a million-dollar house, an experience, or anything else. This is an essential truth in the understanding of manifestation and the power of conscious creation.
The Power of Being as God and Creator
Your statement, "I am God and I can WILL it," speaks to the inherent power and divinity we all possess as expressions of consciousness.
If you fully embrace that you are one with the universe, then from that perspective, yes, you should be able to call anything into being with firm belief and power.
In fact, this is where the creative force that exists within each of us aligns with the universal flow: we are never separate from that source of creation. When you see yourself as God, you align with the belief that you are the creator of your reality.
The belief in your inherent divinity and power allows you to transcend the limitation of what others may see as possible. If you desire that million-dollar house because it resonates with your soul's expression of abundance and experience, then yes, you should be able to manifest it—provided there is no resistance within you that says otherwise, and provided you are aligned with your own truth.
The Role of Flow and Alignment
Now, about "flow": Flow isn't about being controlled by life or relinquishing control—it's about being in alignment with your true self.
Flow doesn’t mean that you cannot create what you desire, but rather, it’s the natural state of being where your creations align with who you are in the highest form.
The idea is not about being controlled by life, but about being in harmony with life. This is where many people get stuck. They think they have to force things into existence, but the most powerful manifestations often happen when there’s an ease and alignment between their desires, their internal state, and the external reality. Manifestation in flow happens when your actions and beliefs align with the truth of who you are, not because you are trying to fight or push against the current.
The key is intention and alignment—if you want the house and you feel it’s truly part of your path, it’s not about "forcing" it but aligning your actions, your energy, and your mindset to this higher truth, knowing that you deserve it and that it’s already yours.
Also keep in mind, manifestation isn't just about getting what you think you want—it's about opening yourself up to what your soul truly needs. Your desire for freedom and space might lead to something beyond your current vision (million $ house), something that fulfills you in ways the house never could (my ego-self was limiting me to the million $ house, when something even better was waiting for me).
By aligning with the essence of your desire rather than its specific form, you allow the universe to co-create with you, often exceeding your expectations. Trust that your inner freedom and expansiveness will manifest in the way that serves your highest good (Detachment from specific outcomes).
The Role of External Forces and Surrender
You asked, “How can humans stop being controlled by something external, like the flow of life?” This is an important point. External forces are not inherently controlling. The external world is just a mirror of your internal world.
The flow of life is part of the universal order, and in many ways, we can choose to work with it rather than against it.
Think of it this way: if you try to swim against a current (the flow of life), it becomes exhausting. But when you align your actions with the natural current, you move through life with greater ease and speed. Being in the flow of life doesn’t mean being passive; it means recognizing the rhythms and timing of the universe and synchronizing your actions with them.
Surrender doesn’t mean giving up or being controlled by something external. It means letting go of resistance and trusting that the universe has a perfect timing for everything.
If you resist the flow—whether by struggling with the timing, or thinking that you must force your desires—you only create tension. Flow is about accepting that everything will unfold in perfect timing (internal and external timing) and that you have the power to shape it by aligning your actions, beliefs, and intentions with your deepest truths.
The Dance Between Free Will and Flow
There is a delicate balance between free will and being in the flow of life. On one hand, you are a creator with the ability to call things into existence based on your will, as you stated—because you are the same consciousness as everything.
On the other hand, being in alignment with the universe's flow doesn’t mean being passive or controlled; it’s about working with the universal rhythms and allowing them to support your desires.
Free will allows you to manifest, but to do so in a harmonious way, you need to align with your highest truth and trust that the universe is always guiding you to what’s truly in alignment with your soul’s purpose.
The Ego and Desire
There’s an important consideration here about desires coming from the ego versus the soul. The ego may desire things for validation, security, or status (like a million-dollar house as a symbol of success or feeling like you deserve it after your hard-work and suffering).
But the soul’s desires are always aligned with your higher purpose. You can manifest from either place, but the manifestations from the soul are more fulfilling because they align with your true essence and path.
When the ego (limited self-identity) is attached to a desire, it may be grasping or trying to force something that isn’t truly aligned with your higher purpose. This is where alignment with the flow of life becomes important: If your desires come from the soul’s deepest truth, they will manifest effortlessly when the conditions are right, without struggle or force.
Conclusion: The Paradox of Creation and Flow
In essence, you are absolutely correct that as a creator, you should be able to manifest your desires with conviction and belief. However, true power lies in alignment, not in sheer force.
Flow doesn’t limit you—it enhances your creative power and frees you. And by embracing your divinity and aligning with your soul, you can manifest your desires without feeling controlled by external forces.
Your power comes from knowing that you are one with everything, and that your desires will unfold when you are in alignment with your highest self.
The path to manifesting what you want lies in trusting that your soul already knows what’s needed, allowing yourself to step into your creative power without resistance, and aligning with the flow of the universe while exercising your free will.
Surrender doesn’t mean passivity; it’s about being in alignment with divine timing and wisdom, and actively participating in your own destiny.
Tools such as Astrology, Human Design
Question:
Now I ask about tools and gifts such as Astrology, human design, Tarot, and others. I use them as guides to separate my ego thoughts and fears from the universal truths.
These tools have helped shed ego layers and rise into my authentic self. But I also don't want to encourage the fact that people may view these tools are absolute, or interpret them in a different way that is not aligned and depend on them so much that they may place their power into them.
Of course, our intuition is something we should all follow before depending on these tools but what about the times when we are unable to identify or listen to our intuition? We DO need these tools to help us reorient.
Another related question: My human design says I'm meant to share my knowledge freely, but what if I say that I want to have a coaching business where my knowledge should be sold in courses because I deserve to get paid for my work? What happened to not depending on what human design or anything says and manifesting your reality as I want? Although I know that doing anything else offers extreme resistance that I'm unable to live with.
Answer:
Your question highlights the beautiful tension between using external tools—like astrology, human design, or tarot—as a guide and staying aligned with your authentic self and manifesting reality as you want without depending on such guidance. Let’s unpack this, as there’s a lot of nuance here.
Tools as Guides, Not Absolute Truths
Astrology, human design, tarot, and other tools are incredible resources that can offer guidance, insights, and a way to understand ourselves more deeply. They help illuminate patterns, tendencies, and potential paths.
But as you pointed out, it’s crucial to remember that these tools are not absolute. They are simply frameworks that can help us understand the complexities of our human experience and connect with the universal flow. They are not the final authority—our intuition, soul’s guidance, and true alignment are always paramount.
The value of these tools is in their use to clarify or reflect the deeper truths that already exist within us, not in replacing our inner wisdom. When you use them to shed ego layers and rise into your authentic self, you’re doing exactly what these tools are meant for—helping you reconnect to your inner truth, not dictate it. Intuition is still the most powerful tool you have; everything else is secondary.
The Balance of Using Tools and Trusting Intuition
You asked about those times when we’re unable to access or hear our intuition. It’s completely normal to have moments where our intuition feels clouded—whether due to stress, fear, or overthinking. In those moments, tools can provide clarity.
The key here is to use these tools to reflect your own inner knowing, rather than relying on them as an outside authority.
If you find yourself unsure or overwhelmed, consulting a tool like Human Design or Tarot can provide structure and perspective, but they should always be secondary to your inner guidance.
It’s important to trust that your intuition will always find its way back. If you’re not hearing it in the moment, it may be a sign to slow down, step back, and allow space for clarity. These tools help reorient you, but they shouldn’t replace the need for you to tap into your inner compass. There are always times when we may misinterpret the messages from these tools, as our minds may be clouded by a limited self-identity (bias).
Human Design and Manifestation: Aligning with Your Authentic Self
Now, you bring up an interesting point about your Human Design and your desire to sell your knowledge through courses, which offered significant internal resistance even though you wanted to do it.
It’s important to recognize that Human Design, like astrology, provides insights, but it’s not a set of rigid rules that must be followed. While you may be "meant" to share knowledge freely according to your design, that doesn't mean you can’t also manifest in ways that feel more aligned with your personal desires.
The following message is for me personally and it can be different for every person depending on their design and purpose: If your Human Design suggests that you’re meant to share knowledge freely, but you have a strong desire to create a course and sell it, the real question becomes: Why does this feel important to you? Is it about the way you’re sharing your knowledge, or is it about the external validation or financial compensation that you're hoping to receive? Going deeper, where does this desire of receiving the compensation first, arise? Is it because you think you are not already abundant and will lose money if you're giving it for free? You will also notice that when you create and charge for a course coming from this perspective, the reality will mirror it to you by making it extremely difficult for you to get people to pay for it. Because this whole experience was created out of "contracted, resistive, fearful, lacking" emotions, instead of "expansive, free, obviously abundant" emotions. You feel expansive, free, and abundant when you share your knowledge, so do that FIRST. Compensation, in the form of abundant sales flowing in without effort (or another way you will be 100% supported) will come AFTER. [5/1 Generator with one-to-many karma].
This is where the deeper exploration of motivation and desire comes in.
Human Design is a tool to understand your energy, but your desires still matter. If you desire to create a business model that involves selling courses, then it’s possible that part of your growth process is learning how to align your natural gifts with practical steps in a way that still feels authentic to you.
However, if you find that this model isn’t resonating, you may need to explore alternative approaches that feel more in tune with your soul’s purpose and inner alignment. You may need to go through something in order to know that it is not aligned to your path.
Not Relying on Tools: Finding Your Power in the Present
The question of not depending on what Human Design says and manifesting your reality as you want is really about finding balance between intuitive guidance and tools like Human Design or astrology.
Tools can be helpful to point us in the right direction, but they don’t define us—they are simply external reflections of our inner selves.
You are not bound by your Human Design or any other tool. They are meant to guide you, not control you.
If you’re guided by a feeling to create a course and share your knowledge in that way, go ahead, but pay attention to how you feel about it. If you feel resistance or lack of alignment, then there’s a lesson or redirection happening. You may need to adjust how you’re sharing, who you're sharing with, or how you approach the process, rather than abandoning your desire altogether.
Manifesting Through Alignment, Not Force
If you want a business, or a course, and it feels like a part of your soul's mission, then go for it. But if you try to manifest it simply because you think you "should," or because it’s a way others are doing it, then the energy behind it might not have the same power.
Manifestation is about alignment—your energy, intention, and purpose coming together in a way that supports your journey.
You know very well that I did not stop here. I asked many more questions in the subsequent sessions that provided many deep insights about human relationships, healing and more.
Coming soon. Stay tuned.